[D] Reviewer said he will increase his score but he hasn’t (yet)

Maybe someone here can help me figure this out.

I have a reviewer who acknowledged my rebuttal and said they will increase their score*, but they haven’t. Their score is still 4, which was the initial score. Now I am very anxious about the AC reading this and thinking that they increased their score to 4 from a 3 ( meaning their initial thought was reject) because the other person who acknowledged and said they will increase their score did it on the spot at the same time, and I can see the updated score, but the other said they will but didn’t, and now I fear it will look like they did and that the 4 is the updated score ( meaning the initial score was a reject).

I can answer to the rebuttal ( they said option A, fully resolved). I wonder if in my answer I should hint that they have yet to make the update? As a reviewer, would you be annoyed by that ?

Or wait until the 7th ( answer deadlines) if no update. Send a private comment to AC explaining this or not do anything and taking the risk that this might penalize my paper outcome.

Do ACs get pissed with authors who are obsessed over score? Will the AC penalize me by rejecting my paper because I said that the reviewer didn’t increase their score as they promised ?

What can I do ? At this point, the reviewer not saying they would increase would’ve been better because it would mean a 4 that remained a 4 but now a 4 that looks like an updated score will be interpreted as the initial result was a 3 or 2, which is bad.

If accepted, also, the score will affect if it will be given a spotlight or not, so it’s definitely meaningful for me to have his score updated because I don’t know how to handle this, and I don’t know why he couldn’t just update his score when he was already on open review on his reviewer console and it would have taken him 10 seconds to do it ? Why did he have to postpone it ? 😞😞