Asymmetrical Body, how to deal with it?

So basically i had a scoliosis surgery when I was 9 years old so my torso did not grow since then and is super short compared to others. This makes my body look off, as my legs are so long compared to my torso and my arms look too long as they almost reach my knees.

My hips are also asymmetrical, and one is slightly higher than the other. This is horrible cause no matter how skinny i am, every tight piece of clothing shows my shape and is so unflattering.

I’m 18 and about to go to college, and I’m scared that I won’t be able to wear many flattering clothes at all while everyone around me does. i have a lot of nice flowy tops, but i hate that i can’t wear anything tight.

I’m wondering if y’all have any tips on fixing the unevenness, even slightly? And also finding clothing that could look good on me with a short torso and asymmetrical hips. And how can I deal with everyone around me in college because i genuinely always feel so insecure that I can’t wear tank tops or tight dresses or anything i really want.