Leave in conditioner vs Hair clay

I have middle part/wolf cut hair , i struggle with styling it ( i only use water lol ) and it sometimes have this fuzzy apperance ( especially after using shampoo so i use it once weekly now ) , i saw alot of reviews abouy hair clay but never actually found it in my country so im asking does the leave it conditioner give the same or a close result ? And does it give hair a shiny or wet appearance or just matty? Cause i dont want it to look very wet like im using hair cream , and how do i use it and how often ? Any guidende would be appreciated !!!