Has anyone had surgery, spent time in a dorm abroad, or both? (Portugal)

Hello everyone, hopefully someone can help me here as it is a large subreddit, but I do understand this is slightly specific but would like to be informed and prepared.

I'm hoping to one day go to Porto, Portugal for FtM top surgery, so may have some limited movement for the first week especially, but am willing to simply try relax inside a hotel room aside from a rare trip out for food to prep or buy. The issue is, the only affordable hotels in the area near the clinic I have looked at (more accessible for follow ups, then rest until I can get a taxi or similar to the airport a week later) are all dorms, mostly mixed, and all bunkbeds too. I'm concerned I may be unable to mobilise or hurt myself with a bunkbed due to the small spaces, bending, or having to move around a ladder or stairs. I will have both stitches and a compression binder for weeks afterwards so that may limit me further, and will have had drains removed after a night in hospital so likely soreness.

Does anyone have any experience being in dorms after "major" surgery, especially any experience of what it's like with bunkbeds- is there anyway I can ask to secure a bottom bunk, are people usually understanding, are they usually booked full? I know most people will be in dorms as part of a holiday, and therefore out most of the day, but it's still something I need to consider as I will likely be staying in the hotel 90% of the time due to being alone and recovering.

Also, does anyone have any experience being in mixed dorms? I don't want to book a female only dorm, if available, and possibly make people uncomfortable if they don't understand why my chest would be flat or the compression, despite having no other surgeries, but also need to know what negatives there could be to mixed spaces etc. For clarity, my documents such as my passport will say female, as I can only begin the process of changing these once home, or possibly have to wait another few years for NHS documents as cannot afford both surgery and more private paperwork, it all adds up way too fast.

And yes, unfortunately dorms could possibly be my only option around £200, as single rooms so far have seemed to be £500+ and not even guaranteed a private bathroom or close to my clinic or the airport etc. I try look as often as I can for travel distances, cost, and accessibility, but am still hunting. I'm keeping my eye on that £500 mark, but am praying for anything even slightly less as the cost is already unaccessible to the point I tried to fundraise for partial costs, so a budget/ cutting costs is very important, especially as getting transport to and from the airport is going to add to the cost, but I cannot get estimates for those yet, but have been warned they could be around £50 each way (by someone who went there previous) if I require an accessible vehicle or get caught in sunny tourist prices.

This also brings me to a smaller question: is it better to book a hotel by the airport or by the clinic nearer the centre of Porto- roughly what would the price differences be, are hotels more accessible or more expensive to catch people stuck in layovers, what is the transport availability etc.? Very specific but, does anyone know if I just walk out of hospital after I've been monitored (a guaranteed night stay) or if they do actually provide transport back to or near my hotel, as if not, I'd much rather deal with a car journey on the day I leave for pain and recovery reasons, and a short walk to my hotel to recover. However, I do have bad anxiety and over preparing needs (rather be prepared and not need something such as information, than get stuck and need it), and hate the idea of travelling on my last day due to the possibility of transport delays and missing my flight etc. I will be asking my surgeon this question, so am not relying on the internet, but am still awaiting a reply for other queries and it's a possibility he may not know the answer since he's a surgeon and not a nurse/ carer.

Anything based in Portugal would be helpful, or simply tips and experiences with anything mentioned overall. Thank you.