Wedding Fashion Crisis

Okay so I thought I was in love with this outfit for my wedding day when I did some AI concepts of it but actually wearing it something about it just reads wrong and I can’t nail it down.

I tried two different jackets to see different crops and tightness but I wasn’t in love with anything. For context, I’m trans-fem but not trying to 100% come out yet (huge tea there) but my fiancée is telling me she doesn’t actually want me in a suit and tie! I’m cool with things a little less trad but sadly something like a cami or dress, as much as I’d love to, just aren’t things I can wear for the wedding.

Also the wedding is a lakeside garden party on the 4th of July! I was planning on wearing all black, my fiancées dress from what she has told me is slightly traditional in style, lavender/paisley with sequence.