[Routine Help] I want to start basic skincare, but my family believes all skincare products are harmful

Hi everyone,
I’m posting here because I genuinely need some advice from people who actually understand skincare.

I come from a background/family where skincare is not considered important at all. In my surroundings, people usually think that using skincare products is unnecessary or even harmful because “all products are full of chemicals.” Because of this mindset, I’ve never really been allowed or encouraged to take care of my skin properly.

The thing is, I’m not even into heavy makeup or trying to look “perfect.” I honestly just want healthy skin. My skin is usually very dull, I get blackheads, random acne breakouts, and overall my face never feels fresh or cared for. But whenever I mention using things like sunscreen, moisturizers, serums, masks, or even basic skincare, people around me immediately say things like:

• “Natural is better.”
• “These products will ruin your skin.”
• “Once you start using products, your skin becomes dependent on them.”
• “Chemicals damage your face.”

So I’ve grown up feeling guilty for even wanting to try skincare.

At this point, I’m honestly confused. I don’t know what’s actually true and what’s just fear/misinformation. I want to learn skincare in a healthy and realistic way, not because of beauty standards, but because I want to feel comfortable and confident in my own skin.

I’d really appreciate if you guys could help me understand:

• Is basic skincare actually harmful in the long run?
• What products are genuinely necessary for someone with dull skin, blackheads, and occasional acne?
• Can skincare be kept simple and affordable?
• Are there beginner-friendly products/routines that won’t overwhelm sensitive skin?
• How do you deal with family/community members who think skincare is “wrong” or “fake”?

I feel very behind compared to people who learned these things early, so please be kind. I’m trying to learn from scratch. 🤍