Discussion: women of the sub, what do you do for language exchange?

Well, I've been using these language exchange apps for years already and what always stucked with me was the fact that me being a Brazilian woman most people who are trying to learn Brazilian Portuguese don't actually want to LEARN Brazilian Portuguese. They wanna date a brazilian woman or whatever other girl of their 243244 target languages on their profile. I'm not interested in any of that. Not really a great experience overall.

So i was wondering if the women of the sub who happened to have similar experiences with those apps and who are interested stricly on learning /non-romantic connections/friendship had any tips or alternatives regarding this issue, specially those who speak more "unusual"/less targeted languages.

I live in a place with barely no native speakers of my target languages (TL) , so Internet is basically my only way to practice. Of course, you can always pay for an online tutor, but I would really enjoy a free language exchange (as in me not having to pay for a tutor in dollar when my country's currency is worth almost 1/6 of it).

Any tips? Thnx in advance.