Follow up!HELP!!

Last time I posted asking if a dress looked okay and either feedback on matching colors. My husband will be in black,white and canary. I was told to match my MILS dress and my husband. She was doing blue and last minute a week ago VERY close to the wedding is having a whole new dress in pink made. I can’t change my dress. I’m listening to you all and only staying with gold accessories as it will match my husbands gold accessories and canary accents. Feeling like a circus freak though trying to find a color in shawl so far. I’m attaching me in the dress again,the swatch colors for a possible shawl,my nails I’m getting done,his outfit and the venue. Am I over thinking looking this out of place and ugly?!!