The Cocktail Attire Dress Code Is Due for a Rewrite

This lightweight caped number from Sea is a great option for “cocktail attire”, proving that a dress doesn’t need to be “dry clean only” to still nail the dress code. Made from Tencel and Lycocell, and lined in cotton, its beautiful floral print and ruffle details in a midi length elevate the breezy, breathable fabric. Bring in a little shine with sparkly jewelry and metallic accessories, and this look will set you up for total success.

Finding the right flat that feels dressy enough for a cocktail-attire dress code can definitely be a challenge, but a graphic cage sandal in a shiny metallic is an excellent option for those opting out of heels. And show them off! They would look best with silk pants or a suit trouser in a cropped length or an ankle-to-midi proportion. A short dress with flats could err on a little more casual, but they’re styled with dressier jewelry, you might be able to get away with it.

A whimsical minaudiére adds instant fun to an otherwise refined look and also some conversation-starting whimsy. And if you’ve ever sat for dinner where you didn’t know your tablemates, the bag will certainly come in handy. The Vin (the It-bag purveyor of the moment) is known for beautifully designed and simply irresistible shapes that go with everything.

A statement earring in classic crystal is a jewelry box staple for cocktail attire dressing. Depending on how elaborate the dress or two-piece you’re pairing it with is, it’s hard not to enjoy some added sparkle that complements, and not competes with, the clothing. Loren Hope has great crystal options that are as lightweight as they are glamorous, making for a comfortable finishing touch that can hold up well into the after-party.

A slinky silk number is always a good idea, especially as a matching set. The exciting pop of color and ease of this Reformation number make it a comfortable option for just about any occasion. Less fussy than a suit and slightly more covered up than a dress, a two-piece can definitely fit the bill for cocktail attire. Add a great (preferably open-toe) shoe, a neutral bag and a statement jewel in a contrasting or coordinating tone, and you’re ready to roll.

Leave a solid neutral blazer at the office and opt for something with a richer, more interesting texture to take “cocktail attire” into more luxe territory. Satin, brocade, or velvet makes a beautiful layer over a simple dress if the outdoor event anticipates a chill, or paired with coordinating pants to make a full-suit statement.

A big, 70s-inspired choker is a super easy and super glamorous addition to an open neckline. A strapless dress, or even a very simple suit, can be an excellent base for a necklace of a large proportion like this. The black pendant adds an eye-catching element that looks great with an all-black look, but also with a bold pop of color like a rich red or deep purple.

For outdoor events on a lawn, a wedge sandal is key to avoid stiletto heels getting stuck in the grass—not chic. But wedges can sometimes read a little too casual, so it’s important to strike a balance. Enter this playful Simkhai pair with a golden mussel shell as the wedge. Perfect for seaside summer events, these are guaranteed to turn some heads while also keeping you on solid ground.

Affix a modern-day boutonniere to a blazer lapel or at the bottom of a simple V-neck dress for a gorgeous accent that celebrates the beauty of nature. This minimalist brooch from Lady Grey acts as a mini vase for a small bloom to add shine and a pop of color or green, should your outfit require it. A lily of the valley or an anthurium could be beautiful in this vessel.

Sleeper has been known for its elevated pajama sets worn as cocktail attire, and this refined set can definitely work if styled correctly. Throw on the jammies, add a great pair of dangly statement earrings, put your bare essentials in a hand-held box clutch and step out a metallic heeled sandal. Elevated accessories take the otherwise sleepy set out of the bedroom and out on the town.

Ditch a dress and opt for a statement skirt instead. Sequins, embellishment, and prints on a luxe fabric are all fair game. As for what to wear on top, try pairing one with either a simple satin tank, a clean-line bustier, or a drapey silk bodysuit to keep it elevated. Avoid a T-shirt or even a solid stretch bodysuit, as it runs a little too casual.

For cocktail attire, get yourself a cocktail ring. This head-turning, two-finger statement ring from Hugo Kreit, shaped like a shell, holds a mirror that everyone in your party can benefit from. No spinach in anyone’s tooth while on your watch!

Lightweight trousers in a pleated or “crinkled” texture are an excellent option for cocktail attire, and it’s possible to even wear them as a separate, rather than as a full matching set. Here’s how: either contrast or coordinate with either a pop of color or one of the same hue, in a similarly luxe fabric like silk, satin, or cashmere. Add some elevated accessories like a statement jewel and metallic sandals or a bright point-toe pump for extra impact.

Polka dots are a fun, timeless print that works better for cocktail attire than black tie, because a long gown of dots can be a lot of look. This silky option from Quince is a great length that makes the print a little more formal, and the coordinating silk neck scarf is a fun statement accent that takes the place of a statement piece of jewelry.

Why not a cape? This silk one from Tuckernuck coordinates with a satin mini dress in the same material, but you could also try it with a black silk tank, crisp black wool or satin trousers, heeled sandals, drop earrings, and an envelope clutch. It’s a refreshing and super chic alternative to a blazer or (eek) a “wrap” pashmina from your mother’s generation.

A mini can definitely work for cocktail attire, but something with more volume than, say, a shift dress makes it look more intentional and also a little dressier. A bubble hem, ruffle hem, or a “tulip” shape pleating brings more drama and gives a great opportunity for a statement shoe moment as well.

Add more of a dramatic flair to a go-to little black dress with a shoe that does all the sartorial heavy lifting. This sturdy column heel from Tory Burch, topped with a stunning silk flower (especially in the olive color), brings a plain suit or slip dress from “simple” to “stunting” as fast as you can finish the clasp.

A breezy chiffon maxi slip in a gorgeous floral print is an easy way to look glam and still be super comfortable for any occasion. Maxi dresses definitely work for black tie too, but use your best judgment and take the venue and season into consideration. Sometimes a bold, tropical print is a little more playful and better suited for cocktail attire rather than black tie if the venue is not somewhere tropical itself.

Dress up an updo with jewelry for the hair. Ariana Boussard-Reifel’s sculptural metal hairpins add a gorgeous accent that can replace earrings or a necklace and keep your hair in place. We love an accessory that earns its keep! It’s a perfect option for a minimalist moment like a sleek column dress or a fitted satin suit.

A soft satin pouch bag has an antique feel with printed fabric and fringe that has an understated elegance but also keeps you hands-free, which is crucial when a drink and phone are in hand. British designer Conner Ives upcycled silk piano shawls to create a one-of-a-kind gorgeous accent piece that adds sophisticated vintage flair.