Finding Grace: Dressing for Celebration and Transition

Okay, so context we’re going to a very fancy drinks + restaurant, to celebrate our anniversary + have a night out before a massive surgery for me. So far everyone I’ve asked has had a different opinion.

I used to be a lot curvier/thicker like a size 6/8 and weight trained, medication/illness based weight loss has had me go down to a 2 and at 5’10 feel very strange in my new body. I ended up having a small fitting room meltdown after trying on stuff that used to look good on me and having it gape/look strange, and so I bought 3 dresses and decided to figure it out at home.

Luckily I have vetoed one!

These are the two dresses. I’d wear pasties with the navy and also a smooth strapless bra, couldn’t find it when I was looking for it when trying it on today lol.

And yes I would accessorize appropriately no Apple Watch.

Thank you so much !!!!

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